Let’s suppose you’re a singer/songwriter. You’ve written a great album. You know it’s catchy and would sell. You’ve worked hard at getting it into the right hands. You’ve even had help from people in the music industry who believe in your ability and love your work. Doors have appeared to open for you for a little while. But nothing is happening to secure you a recording contract.
A Psychic with an excellent reputation for being accurate with their predictions has reassured you that you have an incredible career ahead of you. You will be a household name. All the cards indicate that success is coming to you.
Flowers can heal negative emotions
For a while things are looking great and you get close to getting a major break in the music industry and then something happens to ruin this. You become angry and upset. Why does success happen to others and not to you? Why is it so hard for you to get a real break? Is this sounding familiar?
Are You Afraid of Fame?
It may be that deep down somewhere in your psyche you have a fear of being famous and this fear is blocking you from achieving the success you have been desiring.
If you’re unaware that you have a fear of success, imagine yourself succeeding and becoming a really famous singer. How do you feel? Is there a tiny feeling of angst somewhere deep in your being about this? Maybe you are even quite conscious of a very real fear when you visualise yourself as a famous recording artist but have not realized that it is this very fear that is stopping you from succeeding with your music.
Facing Your Fears
Perhaps you are a private person and you are afraid that once you become well known as a singer that you will lose your anonymity and the entire world will be watching your every move and judging you on what you do. Or perhaps you are afraid of public speaking and fear that if you become famous you will have to appear on radio and television and give public talks. You may even have a fear of large audiences watching you as a performer.
Your fear could even be connected to finding a soulmate or maintaining an existing good relationship. Maybe you fear that being a successful singer will mean that you will be always traveling with no time for yourself or your partner. You may even have a fear of flying and this could be blocking you from achieving your desires of making a successful living from your music.
Overcoming Your Fears
Facing whatever it is that is preventing you from being comfortable with success is a huge step towards eliminating the problem. Once you know what you are afraid of you can work on clearing out that fear. Most things that we fear are really just in our own minds and have little to do with reality.
Let’s suppose your fear is that by being famous you won’t be able to have a happy soul mate relationship because you will be too busy traveling the world with no freedom for a personal life. Once you are honest with yourself in identifying that this is your deep seated fear and is at the root of your lack of success with your desired career, you are at least half way to solving the problem. When we acknowledge a fear we begin to look at it head on and often discover that it is irrational.
You may become aware of all the famous singers who have managed to maintain great relationships, or even have met an ideal partner once they are truly following their heart and happily exploring their own special talents and abilities. You may need some additional help in dissolving the fear you have by seeking out an alternative practitioner who can help you.
There are many things you can do to help dissolve any deep seated fears you may have. But remember (see disclaimer) that whatever I am suggesting here does not replace the advice of a qualified medical practitioner.
Mimulus Flower Essence
Flower Essences can be very helpful and can help to dissolve all kinds of negative emotional states. But you do need to take them consistently and consult with a flower essence practitioner to make sure you are choosing the best possible remedy.
If you know what the fear is you can begin working with affirmations to help clear out the fear and perhaps combine that with a flower essence.
If your fear is that fame will block you from having a successful relationship try saying something like this:
I enjoy a successful singing career and a perfect relationship with my ideal partner.
Another way to approach the removal of a known fear is to offer it to the light.
You could say:
I offer my fear of being famous to be dissolved in the light.
Meditation Can Help
Meditation over time can be very helpful in dissolving fears. Seek out a good meditation technique and set aside time everyday to dive deep into your being.
Meditation can help remove stress
Transcendental Meditation or TM® is an excellent technique for the removal of deep seated stress and has had many scientific studies published in peer reviewed journals that show its effectiveness for a whole range of things. It’s also extremely easy to do, is practiced by millions of people all over the world and anyone can do it, no matter what they believe or don’t believe in. It works no matter what.
You Are What You Feel
We’ve all noticed at some time in our lives that when we feel good about ourselves our life flows well and we find it easier to manifest what we want. So feeling fearful is not going to bring you what you desire. So do whatever you can to clear yourself of those unwanted fears and you will begin to see success flowing your way.
Good luck with that.