Are you one of those people who have read all the books on positive thinking and ‘The Law of Attraction’? You’ve written down everything you would like in a partner and you’ve said positive affirmations and done your best to feel the person is already with you. But all that has manifested are people you don’t find that appealing. What is going on?
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Matching Your Vibration
In Esther and Jerry Hicks new book ‘The Vortex’ published by Hay House, they talk about the way the ‘Law of Attraction’ works and how it brings us our vibrational match. So if we are wanting particular qualities in a person we first need to make sure we have those qualities in ourselves.
I thoroughly recommend reading this book by the way. It holds some valuable insights I have not found in any other book I’ve read on manifestation and relationships and includes a large number of flawed premises that are at the heart of every uncomfortable relationship issue.
Here’s a quote from the book from ‘Abraham’ the name given to a group of non physical teachers who speak through Esther.
‘In order to find what you are calling “the perfect mate” you must first be the perfect mate. In other words you must consistently emit a vibrational signal that matches the mate you desire.’
This makes a lot of sense. We first need to work on being the kind of person that the soulmate we are wanting to draw into our lives would want to be with. Because as Abraham has pointed out in Esther and Jerry Hicks book ‘we are vibrational beings’ and like attracts like.
